Sunday, November 3, 2013

A Fall Update

I can't even believe it has been over three months since my last post! It probably goes without saying, but our energies have been intently focused on our family and settling into a new normal.  I'm not one to sugarcoat the truth; the past three months have been challenging (some days are more challenging than others). In the midst of the challenges, Makenna has woven her way into the deepest part of our hearts.  She is a little girl with a strong spirit and will, yet each week, we begin to see her vulnerability to us increase - her trust is building and it is a beautiful sight to behold.

The honeymoon is definitely over, I went back to work, all three kids started back to school, and we were back at the baseball fields! As I look back at our wait to travel and all the hiccups along the way, it is so clear to see that God had a plan all along. I count it such a blessing that my time off from work started on the last week of school and ended the week school started - how incredible is that?!? I was so blessed to spend the entire summer home with my three children. 

Makenna LOVES school - I can't even describe how nervous we were about her adjustment to school and she never shed a tear (unlike Mommy!). She is truly thriving and learning more everyday. We love to hear her sing new songs and tell us stories about her friends.

A lot of people ask us how Megan and Matthew are adjusting to their little sister - these two kids amaze me. They have lived through the rough transition with us on a daily basis, and they continue to love her daily and extend grace through all the difficult times. They are doing great and we are so proud of them!

What else???... After three and a half months of sleeping on a mattress on Makenna's floor, I am back in my own bed! Jason & I even had a date night at the end of September.

Here are some pictures from the last three months!








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Thursday, July 18, 2013

One Month!

It's hard to believe that I have been holding this precious girl in my arms for one month!  Yesterday (July 17th) was one month since Gotcha Day - today is one month since our adoption was finalized in China!  In some ways it feels like forever-ago and others it feels like yesterday!  Makenna is adjusting to our family so well, it is clear that she was perfectly picked by God to be a Benner!  Our prayers have been answered.  Now... that is not to say everything is "peaches-n-cream", we definitely have our moments.  This is a time of adjustment for everyone!  It has been a long time since we had a four year old.  Meals, bedtime, playtime and even a ride in the car have a whole new dimension.  But... for the most part... we are all loving our new "normal".  This little girl has captured our hearts - our lives are richer, funnier, more challenging and our relationships are getting deeper.  There is nothing that can make our heart flutter like hearing a little girl in broken English say "Amen" after dinner prayers, sing Jesus Loves Me before bedtime or belt our our family's beloved theme song with the rest of us.  She is home and we are one month into our forever.  Yesterday was a good day to capture some fresh pictures... not that I'm biased or anything -- but isn't she just beautiful???

Love to all,
Jessica










The perfect night to celebrate with Rita's!




Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Welcome Home Makenna!

Thursday evening we arrived HOME... I think the pictures require no words to tell the story...





































Welcome Home Makenna - we love you to the moon and back!